I have been published on real paper. The e-version of the local mag isn’t out yet, so I can’t post a link, but here’s the column anyway. Think village.
You know what I think….
“There’s a load of kids hanging around”, my tennis partner frowns as we meet at Manor House playing fields. And there are. ASBO fodder, or so I think. About two dozen of them, kicking things, swearing loudly, cycling in small circles. Some are lying on the floor and rolling roll-ups with levels of self-conscious sophistication only attainable by teenagers. A couple of them are playing tennis halfheartedly, rackets hitting the ground as often as hitting the ball. Eventually they get fed up and dispense with the rackets. We seize our chance and take possession of the court.
Tennis is a tricky sport. One day I can be playing like Venus (I have a good imagination) and the next, my racket becomes a random direction generator. Today is a good day, despite the distraction of the unruly youths. I hit the ball cleanly and it goes in. I don’t ask for more than that. Except maybe that people don’t cycle over the court.
The kids have abandoned their policy of studiously ignoring us and are now ‘pushing their luck’, to use the universal terminology of the disgruntled adult. The bolder members of the herd stray onto the tramlines (the edge bits of the court, only used for doubles, but close enough to put a girl off her swing). I give them the look usually reserved for aggressive salesmen and others who need putting back in their boxes. Then one of the cyclists rides straight across the court.
There’s a sign on the Tube urging people not to put their feet on the seats, or play their music too loudly. It also suggests people try to remember what it was like to be fourteen, which I think is a fair point to apply to many social interactions. But when I was fourteen I wouldn’t have ridden my bike across someone else’s (rather skilful) game of tennis. Dispensing with thoughts of my well-spent youth, I quickly decide against throwing a strop at this gangly young boy with a cocky grin and a shiny new BMX. Instead I smile at him, tell him to watch himself and hit the ball over to my partner, narrowly missing the kid’s head. He thinks this is really funny, but takes my territorial point.
We carry on playing, the conspicuously bored kids taking mounting interest after my show of strength. They sense we are worthy of some sport, and as one of their friends turns up with some waterballoons, my heart sinks. I’m not opposed to waterballoons, and they generally provide a harmless source of amusement. But when they’re filled with cherry cola I’m less enthusiastic, and my game is now being disrupted more significantly. Luck is being pushed that little bit too far, and it’s becoming uncomfortable.
My partner wants to ditch the whole thing and go home, but I’m obstinate and like a challenge. I suggest we invite some of the kids to play with us, and it’s pointed out to me that I’m not a social worker. After embarking on a short lecture on the importance of taking social responsibility, I win out and we offer to share the court. The previously cocky bunch of adolescents suddenly turns shy.
One of them, smaller and quieter than the others, has been watching us attentively and I can tell he’s keen to have ago. He accepts my offer, picks up his racket and we form an unlikely doubles pairing. His mates tease him and I goad one of them into joining him. The power balance has shifted and I’m enjoying myself.
We knock about and the kids are quite good despite their nicotine addiction and short tennis rackets. As our audience jeers from the tramlines, I fire some sarcasm in reply and heap praise on the court. Before long, the audience joins in. “Good shot”, “well played!” they shout, and it’s beginning to feel less like a youth detention centre and more like Wimbledon.
Within 20 minutes they all want a go, and the atmosphere shifts from uneasy truce to jovial, happy community.
While living in the US, I once stumbled across a high school American football game, complete with professional looking kit, cheerleaders, local press, school band and a stadium full of supporters. The players strutted around proudly, displaying their athletic prowess, and revelling in their sportsmanship . They were the same age as the kids at Manor House, but someone had given them a chance.